If you want to flirt better with potential romantic partners, give these 6 tips a shot.
1. Wear a provocative necklace. Find something meaningful to you that leads to a story of travel and adventure, or of deeply held values. Then, when women ask about it, you’ll have a story all primed and ready.
2. Put your shoulders back, and open your stance. Roll your palms so they face your hips, not backwards. Palms facing backwards shows low self-esteem. It can also help to practice slowing your walk down, and pretending you’re wading through waste deep water. This causes your upper body to lead your lower a bit, and that’s amore sexy way to walk.
3. Role play. If the other person says something ambiguous, misinterpret it. Create a funny image and exaggerate it. For instance, if they say they’re cold, you can interpet it as being emotionless, and you can tease them about being a Vulcan. If they bend down to tie their shoe, interpret it as them bowing down to worship you.
4. Be playfully arrogant. But don’t be a jerk. Act like you’re the big kahuna, and that you’ll make sure the other person gets taken care of. Ham it up, and they’ll probably play along.
5. Look for any situation to flirt. If you have to bend down to tie your shoe, near someone interesting, say “don’t get too excited, I’m not proposing.” This is playful. Resist the temptation to be overly self-deprecating, though. It would be funny to say “Don’t worry, I’m not proposing”, but it wouldn’t generate as much attraction.
6. Try mirroring the other person subtly. If they play with their hair, play with yours. If they tap their foot, tap yours. If they reach for their drink, reach for yours. Don’t be too obvious, though. We like those who are like us.
Those are 6 quick tips. Not a full course. Try them, and then continue your education with a full guide.
T.P. (PhD) is the author of “Flirting Decosntructed”. Take his free flirting quiz and learn how to flirt at http://how2flirt.com