Have you ever heard someone say that you have to make sure every single thing you say to a girl has to be unexpected or out of the ordinary when you first meet her, or she’ll lose interest?
I have a different view. I think you can use ordinary boring conversational topics to your advantage, if you do it right. And I’ll teach you how to do it right.
What are the so-called “boring questions”?
How do you make your money?
Are you in school?
How old are your children?
Do you live around here?
Can those questions lead to a dead conversation? Yes. Do they have to? No.
This is the magic formula:
TYPICAL QUESTION FLIRTING FORMULA: after she responds to your “typical question”, be ready to be PLAYFUL with her answer.
I will often, very early in the conversation, ask a woman what she does for a living, or, ifshe’s in school, I’ll ask her what she’s studying.
But after I get a response from her, I get playful with her response.
Like this:
If she says she’s studying radiology, I’ll say “Oh, good, so if I were to break my leg right now, you’d totally help me out. You probably have X-ray equipment right in your backpack, right?”
This will ordinarily elicit laughter and a playful spirit from her. She also gets the feeling that you like her for something other than her cuteness, and that you think she could contribute to the social group in some way.
Don’t worry about every guy using this line after reading this article either. Women never get tired of this kind of playful role-playing.
Try it. The next time you’re talking with an attractive woman you’ve just met, give it a shot. And don’t restrict yourself just to women you’re attracted to.
Use it with store clerks, your aunts at the family reunion, little old ladies. They all love it!
Tyler Paxon Ph.D. is the founder of the How To Flirt website. Take his free quiz at http://how2flirt.com